Topics Started by BIG D
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virgins, better off or not?
by BIG D insome here have said that as a matter of course, they choose to remain celibate, singleness the better course and all that.. now that some of these have left the troff, they have still remained so, and now many of those are in their 30s, please i am not dissing you , so dont pm me, ok?.
i wonder as i am a guy, how much different my life would be, if i was still a virgin, wouldnt it create a huge sexual hangup problem for those ones.. that are ....i mean expectations not met for example , when it finally did happen, the worries that, as if being a dub and those problems werent enough, well, some have said, they put it off out of instilled fear of it now.
maybe it creates a issue about sex so big that , they stay celibate even now.. relationship problems of intimacy, or maybe latching on to the first sexual partner, like we all did in the 9 th grade?.
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experiment# 34
by BIG D inif we are made in gods image, then we must have at least some of his reasoning ability, and we have many thoughts on why god would punish all mankind and their offspring for 1000s of years, torture and kill many, for the testing of adam and eve, god said it was good, then why do you have to test them, it was all good right?.
i have great kids, but if i put candy in front of them, and i say dont eat this, they will eat that candy, maybe not tday, but it will come up missing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
and when it is mising, will i punish them , and all there kids for 6000 years, even torture my oldest son for there candy eating, seems like cruelty, god of love???????????
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REMIND ME WHY I, YOU, ARE HERE ON FRIDAY, NITE?????
by BIG D inwhy are we here on date nite, all the singles????.
big d.
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GONNA GET CORNERED TONIGHT
by BIG D inhow yall doin?.
all my relatives are in town tday,from south texas, at my moms, fixin to get some dinner, and they will all come at me, where have you been?, not at the hall?.
and i took my kids trick or treating last nite, i know they wont shutup, the little ones are 9,im just gonna keep asking for more pie!!!!.
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question for single moms
by BIG D ini am not complaining!.
just stating a fact, i have been raising 3 boys for about 5 years, x left , dosent help, signed her rights away, sometimes i get really tired, of the non stop cycle of dishes, laundry, school pickups, football, cleaning, homework, i really am mr mom!.
i love that i have them and would never give that up, we are all so close, we are all we have, especially since the fade, is this how alot of single moms feel?.
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al stewart- year of the cat
by BIG D inthat song just came on, god i love it!.
feel that way about any song?.
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big d wants to meet a lady
by BIG D inok , i know im new and many dont know me, but time will change that, i have dated some, and i think dating someone with the same life experiences that we all have, would be great!.
i know this site is not for that, but heh, im here , your here?.
big d .
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THANKS FOR THE SOFT PLACE TO FALL
by BIG D ini have been here only a while, but i do appreciate the place, i see there are many honest hearted persons here, that like me are good people, who help with the mirad of issues that arise from years of controling stresses from the jw.. many times i feel the flashbacks, when i read the thoughts of others, it helps alot to know there are others like me , i no longer feel so alone!.
big d.